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Photos by Dot from TOUCH Solstice

December 23rd, 2014 · No Comments

Check out the photos by Dot on Facebook HERE
Contact Dot at if you have any questions or concerns.

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December 16th, 2014 · No Comments


Comfort & Joy presents
in collaboration with Calamus,


December 20th, 2014, 8pm-4am


We take advantage of the longest night of the year to bring you an 8 hour party that will awaken all five of your senses…



Enjoy a nourishing buffet of food that will satiate your belly and your soul,
while having a kiki with your kindred spirits. Your delicious food will be provided by Blitzy (who just launched a vegetarian food delivery service, Green Tiffin), Beonda and Zac.



There will be sparkling entertainment during dinner, including: Brontez Purnell reading from his book “The Cruising Diaries”; Miss Rahni performing numbers from her acclaimed one-woman show “My Book, Vol. 1″; and queer comedian Sampson, who’s comedy albums include “Don’t Make Me Take Off My Earrings” and “That Bitch Better Be Funny”.


A performative ritual to highlight the power we tap into at this annual turning point, lead by Kevin, Zac, and Max.


The ritual will be followed by a show hosted by Ultra featuring some of your favorite and thought-provoking queens, including Effervescence Jackson, Mama Dora, Mandala, Shakey Gibson, Vivi The Force, Trangela Lansbery, Amanda Love, Samuel Kehl, Dakota Pendant, Alabama Slamma and Beonda.



Exhilarating music mixed together by talented DJs
ON the main dancefloor, we are featuring Sergio Fedasz & Steve Fabus of GoBang!, as well as Robin Malone Simmons of Odyssey.


In our more intimate playspace lounge, we have the sexy stylings of Justime of Digital Wildlife and Collin Bass



The intoxicating scent of hundreds of beautiful creatures,
coming together to celebrate the return of the sun.


It’s the reason for the season, darling.

Clothing Optional Costume Check Available

Photobooth by Dot, Decor by Chickpea


Don’t miss out on this multi-sensory experience.



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Workshop: Photography of the Male Nude

September 18th, 2014 · 1 Comment


Are you interested in developing your beefcake photography skills? Consider attending this October 4th hands on workshop on Studio Photography of the Male Nude in San Francisco.

This workshop is open to all abilities. Bring your own camera (DSLR preferred). Class is limited to 8 photographers. We will have multiple studio lighting setups and 4 hot/sexy models, so you will get lets of time behind the camera.

Arrive at 11 am for an hour class on use of studio lighting, and basic photography. More advanced photographers are free to arrive at noon and focus on actual shooting.

Topics covered will include:

– lighting with studio strobes
– posing of the male nude
– telling stories with props and multiple models
– portrait/fashion lighting with partially clothed figures
– erotic photography

Workshop Instructor Dot (aka Tom Schmidt) has published several books of photography, including “The Classic Beauty of Male Escorts in San Francisco”, “Sons of God”, and “Comfort and Joy”. His work has been exhibited in San Francisco and around the Bay Area.

For more information contact Dot/Tom at PhotoByDot (at) yahoo (dot) com.

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“What!? You mean I’m a Sherpa?!”

September 17th, 2014 · No Comments

A Tale from the K Hole at Burning Man 2014

By: Anonymous Burner

The hot Playa topic this year is all about Plug and Play camps and the controversy surrounding the loopholes they find to be able to run profitable business behind their private walls while on the Playa. As someone who appreciates a challenge and a good story got share, I felt fortunate that I was able to be an employee working in one of these. Yes, I was a sherpa for a camp put in place by one of the members on the board of directors for Burning Man.


To avoid any possible issues surrounding my story, I’m going to go ahead and just use different names for everyone involved and the exact title of camps I am talking about. My intention is not to hurt any individual’s reputation. I will just share my experience of something that I personally believe is a true example of how someone could actually do it wrong at Burning Man.

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Video: Spaz Wants You To Die

September 16th, 2014 · 1 Comment

Suppositori Spelling revives her classic number from Comfort & Joy’s “Aliens Cut My Hair” at Cocktailgate in San Francisco in this video recorded by Kitten Calfee.

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“Just Let Go” by the SyntheTigers (Live at Afterglow)

August 6th, 2014 · 3 Comments

The SyntheTigers treat us to an afterhours performance of their hit song “Just Let Go” at Comfort & Joy’s 10th Annual Pink Saturday Afterglow private party in San Francisco.

Vocals written by Tobirus Mozelle
Written by Allen Craig
Produced by Allen Craig & Sergio Fedasz

Support the artists: purchase various mixes of this song at

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LISTEN: Justime’s Afterglow DJ Set ~ Recorded Live

August 3rd, 2014 · No Comments

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Touch Uranus on Friday August 8th

August 3rd, 2014 · 9 Comments

We are very excited to announce that…. TOUCH is BACK in a NEW VENUE for a NEW ERA!

Our new private venue has TWO floors of activity, several diverse rooms, spring loaded dancefloor, outdoor smoking area, secure bike parking, upholstered booths downstairs and an comfortable affection-encouraged area upstairs.

At Friday’s TOUCH URANUS we are paying tribute to the legendary Club URANUS: A phenomenon that occurred every Sunday night at the ENDUP bar (6th & Harrison) during the 1990’s in San Francisco.

With MUSIC by some of the Bay Area’s best dancefloor talent


Pete Avila (Club Uranus + Your Mamas House)
Steve Fabus + Sergio Fedasz (Go BANG!)
Bus Station John (The Tubesteak Connection)
Tisdale Fry (What Wednesdays)
Sam Kehl (Opening Set)


SAUCY PERFORMANCES by Mysteriously Delightful Clubkids ~

Empress Jupiter Knows
Mama Dora
Dakota Pendant
Vivi La Force


Dress to Impress / Dance + Undress…Costume / Drag / Playa / Fetishwear encouraged.

Clothing Optional Costume Check Available.

Eventbrite - Touch Uranus ~ August 2014

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Going Global… Tales For The Playa & The Cities Of Dreams.

July 9th, 2014 · No Comments

The story of how a series of books inspired a journey across the sea to a desert far far away”

My first trip to Burning Man will also coincide with my first visit to San Francisco. Ever since I first read Tales Of The City I have long felt a pull to the city.

Growing  up gay in the gritty underworld of Melbourne was tough. The people of the queer community were often targeted. It was  inspiring to read Armistead’s Series of novels and dream of living in a city such as San Francisco. I identified strongly with Mouse. The Gay Everyman. And from my first reading I wished my life could be a little like his. Mouse had swagger , not so much cool but  brave and sophisticated a man who stood by his principles and lived by what he believed. It was definitely someone I aspired to be.

Some years after I had come out to my family, found my footing within the gay community a loving partner and formed my own logical family Armistead Maupin published “Michael Tolliver Lives” for me this book was groundbreaking almost a second coming out. Mouse had a younger partner and in his wonderful writing I could draw parallels between Mouse and my own wonderful partner John

Earlier this year when I had already sought to establish contact with Comfort & Joy in my early planning for Burning Man Armistead released his latest novel The Days Of Anna Madrigal. After reading the book and his glowing description of Comfort & Joy I knew camping with comfort and joy was a “logical” decision.

For those of you who have not read this series of books I highly recommend them. I had the privilege of meeting Armistead and his partner Chris whilst he was doing a literary tour with “Mary Ann In Autumn” I wonder if I will meet him again on the playa.

With only a few weeks till I depart for America. I’ve begun to reflect now on why I am going and what I hope to achieve  and most of all not form pre conceived conceptions of how I want my week in the desert to unfold.. The Playa will provide…

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Free Download: Go BANG! 2014 Afterglow Set

July 7th, 2014 · No Comments

We are very grateful to everyone who made our tenth anniversary Pink Saturday Afterglow special!

**This was Go BANG!‘s Steve Fabus & Sergio Fedasz 1-for-1 Set at 4:30a-6a! Mixed With Love!**
This is how we welcome a New Day and celebrate Our Pride! Courage, Respect, Realness, Living Fully.

Pardon the occasional over-modulation, sometimes we get a bit excited…

1. The Look Feat. Dan Beaumont (Director’s Cut Signature Mix) (Frankie Knuckles & Eric Kupper) Savedrecords – The-look-feat-dan-beaumont
2. D Bow = Get Involved Feat Sonny Fodera (Original Mix)
3. Dave Spoon = At Night
4. Mary Clark = Take Me I’m Yours (Mercury Edit) Worldofmercury – Mary-clark-take-me-im-yours
5. Mark Knight, Funkagenda = Man With Red Face
6. Sylvester = You Make Me Feel Mighty Real (Joey Negro’s Special Dub)Joeynegro – Mighty-bloody-real-joey-negros-special-dub
7. Dee Dee Bridgewater = Bad For Me
8. Jackie Moore = This Time Baby (Robe Flax reedit) Robe-flax – Jackie-moore-this-time-baby-robe-flax-reedit
9. Matthew Bandy = Pieces Of My Dream
10. Luther Vs Whitney = Love Will Save The Day (Kinky Movement Edit) Kinky-movement – Luther-vs-whitney-kinky-movement-edit-free-download
11. Rochelle Fleming = I’m Gonna Give It To You (Rochelle’s Revenge Underground Goodie Mix)
12. Lace = Can’t Play Around (Ziggy Phunk Holiday Lover Edit) Ziggy_phunk – Lace-cant-play-around-ziggy-phunk-holiday-lover-edit
13. Right To Life = Subway (Micky More Supersonic Mix) Djmickymore – Right-to-life-subway-micky
14. Kidstuff = Love It (iMFROMULL EDIT) Imfromull – Love-it-imfromull-edit
15. Urban Sound Lab Featuring Selina Campbell = Nothing New Urbansoundlab – Urban-sound-lab-feat-selina
16. Kevin Kind = I Remember (SyntheTigers Mix)
17. Tracy Hamlin = Home (Tedd Patterson’s Home Alone Remix) Teddpatterson – Tracy-hamlin-home-tedd-1
18. Frankie Knuckles Presents Jamie Principle = Waiting On My Angel (ELIOT Edit) Eliot_music – Frankie-knuckles-pres-jamie
19. Stefano e Bene feat Hard Ton = Why Your Love (Katbatz Remix)
20. Harddrive = (Never Forget) When You Touch Me (Remix)
21. Two Tons of Fun = Just Us

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